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What's your attachment style?

A 10-question relationships quiz you take on camera. Say your answers out loud and find out if you're Secure, Anxious, Avoidant or Fearful-Avoidant.

By @tapeical2 · 0 plays

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What you could get

  • Secure You say what you need and trust people to show up. Calm, warm and honestly kind of rare. Teach the rest of us.
  • Anxious You love big and notice everything, including a reply that's four minutes late. Your heart's huge. Let it rest.
  • Avoidant Independent, capable and suddenly very busy when things get deep. Letting someone in won't cost you yourself.
  • Fearful-Avoidant You crave closeness and brace for it at the same time. That push-pull once kept you safe. You can set it down.
See the questions (spoilers)
  1. 1. Your crush hasn't texted back in 5 hours. You… A. Assume they're busy. Carry on B. Reread our whole chat for clues C. Didn't notice. I'm busy too D. Decide they're over it. Go cold
  2. 2. Your partner says “we need to talk.” You… A. Instantly: “about WHAT??” B. Suddenly need a very long walk C. Brace for the worst, as usual D. “Sure. When works for you?”
  3. 3. Things are going really well. Your brain says… A. “This is getting a bit much” B. “Something's bound to go wrong” C. “Nice. I'm enjoying this” D. “Don't mess this up. Don't.”
  4. 4. After an argument, you need… A. Reassurance. Right now B. To talk it out, then a hug C. Space, then fear I've lost them D. Space. A lot of space
  5. 5. Pick your texting style A. Read at 2pm, replied Thursday B. Double text, triple text C. Long paragraphs, then silence D. Reply when I can, no games
  6. 6. They say “I love you” first. You… A. Say it back, if I mean it B. Melt, then look for the catch C. Change the subject, fast D. “Finally! I've waited weeks!”
  7. 7. Your biggest relationship fear A. Getting close, then getting hurt B. Being too much for them C. Not much. We'd figure it out D. Losing my independence
  8. 8. A friend cancels plans last minute. You think… A. “Great. Couch night” B. “No worries, we'll reschedule” C. “Are they mad at me?” D. “Figures. People always flake”
  9. 9. Your ex texts “hey” at midnight. You… A. Reply, regret, block, unblock B. Leave it on read, forever C. Reply in four seconds D. Answer tomorrow, with boundaries
  10. 10. Your partner's quiet at dinner. You… A. Assume it's about me B. Get quiet too, just in case C. Ask if they're okay D. Enjoy the quiet, honestly

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